"But, when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same object, evinces a design to reduce them under absolute despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such government, and to provide new guards for their future security."

From the Declaration of July 4, 1776, 1 Statute at Large 1

Whining is NOT found in or among those words. Those words were written in the blood of men no longer alive thus capable of reading them. Get over yourselves or consider this an invitation to leave!