Just abolish marriage as a LEGAL institution. Let any church perform whatever rites and print out whatever documents they wish. Got a problem with the Gay Church of Christ or whatever? Take it up in the religious culture wars, but leave my representational government out of it. I have a right to it not being your battlefield. Convince people on TV, door-to-door, wherever, as you will - they can freely accept or reject your opinions, and I can always change the channel or slam the door.

(Marriage is a contract between two people and God, not two people, God, and the State)

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